Us army dating rules
If you are not a fan of coitus may I recommend downgrading to the dude in skinny jeans that served you your skinny soy latte, or whatever the shit it is you people order at Starbucks. Honestly he will most likely not be sporting a six pack but I assure you if you are ever hiking and break your ankle this is the guy that is going to carry you the eight miles back to the car without a second thought.
If my nightly prayers ever come true and there actually is a zombie apocalypse you have a significantly better chance of survival being with this guy.
This is based solely on the experiences of my veteran friends, as well as my own with a past paramour. The military teaches service members to trust their unit, and few others. If he comes to you with a problem, chances are he’ll talk about it until he no longer wants to and then go into lockdown. That is not a good thing or a bad thing, that is just a matter of fact and something you need to understand. Military men are used to their band of brothers, and are bred to be loyal and protective. Some branches of the military (I’m looking at you, Marines) have a feeling of superiority over others.
This list is not simply a composition of pros or cons, but rather an overview of what dating a service member active duty or veteran — is like. They are meant to be extremely close with this group of people and everyone else is simply on a need-to-know basis. It is not a competition between his military friends and you; they are people who shared a very intimate part of his life, and you should want to be close with them, too. He will love you fiercely and be the most faithful companion, if you can promise the same. Granted, that is earned due to the nature of their work and how much they put on the line.
So you met this really interesting guy claiming to be an Army Ranger.
Chances are he isn’t, chances are he is lying to you in an attempt to get laid.
Just like Michael Pollan’s rules for omnivore eating are so simple (Eat food. Mostly plants.), my rules of how to have a lasting military marriage are just as straightforward.
That doesn’t mean half those teen marriages last forever.
Others have suggested that had a man been in a similar position, we might never have heard about the alleged affair - or at least it would not have made the front pages.
Because while her gender and high profile may have made this case exceptional, Cdr West is far from the first person in the military whose love life has impacted on their career.
Editor’s Note: This article originally appeared at Cellar Door, the personal blog of Gabrielle Puglia. You need to understand that the military is a brotherhood.
There have been a few articles about the pros and cons of dating the Generation Y military man, and while some of them are better reads than others, I felt the need to weigh in. Military men may never have closer relationships than those they made in the military.